QUESTION: I keep hearing about tantric sex positions and how sensational they are. What are they? How are they different from the usual sex positions? Can you explain how to do some? (My partner and I are not limber enough to do those Kama Sutra pretzel-y ones.) John, Princeton, NJ
ANSWER: Dear John, You don’t have to be a yogi in order to experience sensational tantric sex! Any body posture that feels good and comfortable to both of you and gets your sexual energy flowing is a tantric sex position. One of the ideas in tantric sex is, as Margot Anand puts it, is to stay relaxed in high states of arousal. How can you be relaxed when you are uncomfortable?
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Thursday, August 31, 2017
Tantra teacher Lokita Carter reveals the keys to sensational Tantric sex.
Tuesday, August 29, 2017
Anna Breslaw reveals how to have a vaginal orgasm or at least give yourself the best chance of it.
You very rarely hear women say they can achieve orgasm just from penetration, but like the Loch Ness Monster, the legend sticks around just enough to make those who are more clitorally-oriented wonder if it's worth working towards. And men put a premium on it for a few obvious reasons: (A) Porn and (B) They want to feel like their penis is a sexual hot-rod that will make you speak in tongues and throw your vibrator in a volcano. Read more
Saturday, August 26, 2017
These eight anal fingering techniques can be orgasmic for a woman, says Svetlana Ivanova.
Anal fingering is a great way for you to give your lover pleasurable anal orgasms. The reason why you can give her orgasms through anal fingering is due to the fact that her vagina and her anus canal are only separated by a thin membrane. This allows your lover to feel the your fingers stimulate indirectly her G-spot and maybe even the back of her deep spot. Read more
Thursday, August 24, 2017
If you are having trouble hitting the depth you want, then check out these seven Kama Sutra sex positions.
Q: Hi, I am a 25-year-old guy from Mumbai. I have been trying to have sex with my girlfriend for the last 6 months but she is never happy. She complains that I do not penetrate deep enough. What should I do? Are there positions which could help me?
Your problem has haunted men since the dawn of time since there’s nothing we can really do to increase the length of our penis. However, there are several sex positions, many of them documented in the ancient sex manual Kama Sutra which can solve your problem. Read more
Tuesday, August 22, 2017
Shakti Amaranthan reveals how women can master the woman-on-top position.
I love being on top. As I've mentioned before, the "cowgirl" position is pretty close to a standard for a lot of couples after the yab-yum stage during tantra, but I also love it for regular sex. My partner and I tend to begin that way more often than not. But after getting several private questions and a plaintive one on another website, I've begun to realize that a fair number of women are scared to try it, so I thought I would share some tips.
This was the question:How do you support yourself as a woman when you are on top during sex? Do you move up and down or do you rock back and forth? Are you sitting completely upright? Besides being shy about "being on top," I don't really know the logistics of how to do it. Any tips? Read more
Saturday, August 19, 2017
Misha Ruth Cohen describes eight powerful qigong exercises for cultivating healing energy in the body.
What is Qigong and Why is it Essential?
Qigong (pronounced: chee-gun), which combines meditative and physically active elements, is the basic exercise system within Chinese medicine. Qigong exercises are designed to help you preserve your Jing, strengthen and balance the flow of Qi energy, and enlighten your Shen. Its dynamic exercises and meditations have Yin and Yang aspects: The Yin is being it; the Yang is doing it. Yin qigong exercises are expressed through relaxed stretching, visualization, and breathing. Read more
Thursday, August 17, 2017
Steve Pavlina reveals what astral sex is and how you can experience it.
You’re probably already familiar with what it’s like to have sex as a physical human being, but did you know that you can also engage in sexual liaisons outside of your physical body? Yes, it’s true. You’re not limited to the physical. There’s a whole other world of sex, pleasure, and unbridled passion awaiting you outside of your physical shell. And today I’m going to tell you all about it. Read more
Tuesday, August 15, 2017
Kunyaza is an African sex technique for helping women achieve orgasm and female ejaculation, says Svetlana Ivanova.
Kunyaza is a sex technique from Central Africa that uses tapping and rubbing the penis over the clitoris and vulva before penetration in order to increase female arousal and prepare her body for intercourse. Then, similar movements at the opening to the vagina are alternated with shallow and deep thrusts in order to stimulate the G-spot area and trigger female ejaculation. The basic idea behind Kunyaza is to combine both external and internal stimulation using varied, rhythmic movements that are adjusted according to the response of the woman. Read more
Tuesday, August 8, 2017
This couples meditation for beginners is a great way to start developing a Tantric relationship.
Couples meditation is a great way to improve your relationship. It’s a great way to reach a whole new level of intimacy and understanding. Please read the article on intimacy first if you want to know more about intimacy. This article is about practical exercises/meditations you can do to deepen the intimacy with your partner. Read more