Tuesday, January 3, 2012
5 Sex Positions That Enhance Tantric Intimacy
1) Woman on Top
A man lying down with the woman on top can be a vulnerable position for both lovers, which in itself can create emotional intimacy. He must rely on her actions, while she is bared and exposed for his viewing. This position is ideal for lots of touching and intimate caresses.
2) Hold Me
In this sex position, the man holds the woman as if she's just jumped into his arms. With her legs wrapped around his waist and her arms around his neck, this position is conducive to slow movements, passionate kisses, and romantic swaying.
3) Slow Going
In this sex position, the man is seated, legs extended, leaning back on his arms. The woman sits on top facing him, then leans back herself and extends her legs behind him. By necessity, this position requires slow, gentle movements. There is an electric emotional intimacy in not being able to move much, only being able to watch each other.
4) Legs Entwined
To move into Legs Entwined, you should both lie on your side with your legs outstretched, the woman should then lift her upper leg and place it on top of her partner's leg, bending it slightly. The man can then enter her deeply and pull her towards him by grasping her hip. By pulling her and then letting her go a little, she will rock on and off his penis.
The Yab-Yum sex position offers deep emotional intimacy. To get into this position, the man should sit on the floor with his knees bent wide open. The woman then sits with her legs over his thighs and her feet on the floor. The man pulls your partner close to enable him to penetrate her. This position gives just enough stimulation to maintain arousal, and while it may not result in orgasm for either of you, you’ll enjoy gently rocking in tandem while kissing, caressing, and gazing into your partner’s eyes.
In Tantric sex, the emotional connection between partners is just as important as the physical connection. One way to achieve that emotional connection is to use a sex position that enhances intimacy. That intimacy will make sex with your lover, not only more intense, but also more rewarding.
When personal Tantra instruction is either inconvenient or too expensive, Al Link and Pala Copeland's Sexual Mastery Course and Kerry and Diane Riley's Ultimate Home Tantra Course are two excellent self-teaching courses. I highly recommend either of these courses for those who can't find a local Tantra teacher, attend a Tantra workshop, or just want to explore Tantra in the privacy of their own home.